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I’m getting the ball rolling on this 6 months before due date and I need any help I can get. As we have all had rocky relationships, this one is gonna have a kid involved. When my girlfriend told me she was pregant I was actually excited, so I did the right thing, bought a ring. A week later I come home from work and found that she was at my house went through my cabinets and found she found my vodka I had hidden from her. That caused an argument, next day she is in ER, she wouldn’t tell me where she was…MISSED our first ultrasound as a couple. Went to her mom about it, I confronted my (new) fiance’ and you would have thought I would have summoned the devil or something….Just plain evil. So because of my concern for the baby I’m being banned in the involvement of every aspect of the term. NOW saying all that here is the interesting part….a couple months into the relationship I learn that the child’s mother is a convicted felon and on probation till 2014, it was a drug charge….Big drug charge!! She has no home, as the old joke goes, lives in her parents basement. Her dad is an alcoholic (recovered?)…and mother is just a mental case….that my friends is an environment I dont want my child around!! SO I called her doctor….seems she only put herself down as party of interest on her privacy forms. I called, talked to the doctors nurse and had the whole drinking thing and addict thing documented on her file. I keep getting texts (which are GOLD) saying I will never see the kid….and things of that nature. So in a nutshell….we have an addict, felon, on probation, no insurance as a mother versus myself. The only thing I was ever guilty of was being a tad immature at times….record is clean as can be, have own business,home and insurance and most importantly, it seems I have the best interest of my child at hand!! ANY HELP OUT THERE AT ALL WOULD BE APPRECIATED!!!! Thanx in advance
Watkins…..NEVER claimed I was a saint…was just stating the facts. And I would NEVER do anything to psychologically poison the child. Were bad mistakes made…SURE they were, But the situation is what it is….I already love the child, and am truly excited for the arrival. I dont know your situation, but have you ever dealt with an addict…have you ever had to deal with someone who thinks it is OK to use a child as a weapon against you. Stupidity on my part or not, just out of shear love for this woman I thought I could fix her and she could help me with my flaws, but when this situation came about and things became real it seems I’m the only one standing here saying, “let’s deal with it”! Already pursuing all the avenues I need to to have all bases covered, just posted question for support and advice! So until you have walked the road I have with this woman, don’t judge from the outside!